This particular is bent on inspiring you into becoming a stronger and better you.
It is without doubt that we definitely need people in our life to make us formidable but it is also necessary that we learn to stand alone cause it does help to build our self confidence.
Always dependant on other people in almost everything to get certain task accomplished is never a good thing because it keeps you in the dark side of the enormous potentials that you really possess and makes you being perceived as a parasite that always depends on the host at all time.
There is no better way to improve your self confidence than actually learning to stand alone even when that very situation seem very difficult to get by, once you succeeds in getting it sorted out it will go a long way into making you feel very confidence of your abilities.
How can one really learn to stand Alone
Believing in your Abilities
Every human being on earth has certain abilities which is now left for you to discover yours to discover yours, believe in them without doubt or fear of the unknown.
Be Bold to take that step
Boldness is a major attribute that you should have if you want to be stronger standialways , alone. Be bold to take that very step not actually putting into consideration people's thoughts and opinions about your supposed pessimistic outcome. If you can take that bold step today without any fear or doubt in your own abilities you will most likely succeed at the end.
Do not be a push around kind of person
Having your own self will is also very important, do not let people push you around at will or always make your mind up for you, make that decision and have the boldness and will to stick to it.
Try to leave your comfort zone
We are always comfortable when we are with friends, family and loved ones that makes one weak when it comes to standing firm alone. So leaving that very comfort zone can help make you stronger and able to stand all alone and still be successful.
So as much as we need people around us to help accomplish those task, you should also know that humans cannot always live up to expectations and that is the reason you should learn to be your own man, learn to stand alone so that you can always adapt to any change that comes in the future.
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I actually prefer to be alone. I need to work on being around others more often, but I just love my personal space.
ReplyDeleteYou should also work on that too.
DeleteAn interesting topic. I definitely think it's a balance. I'm an introvert so I prefer to not be around too many people, but there are definitely life situations where it's helpful to have others to help you through!
ReplyDeleteI totally agree with you Alexandra.
DeleteLearning to stand alone. I mean there's coming a time dear friend, when you are going to have to be one against the crow$. You may be the only Christian in that class. You're going to have to stand up for the Lord Jesus.
ReplyDeleteThat's an interesting point you made there Daisy.
DeleteIt is hard sometimes to stand alone and stand up for all you believe in, sometimes it is easier to follow the crowd, but we shouldn't do that.
ReplyDeleteYou are quite right Sarah, I welcome your comment.
DeleteAfter being burned by family, I definitely discovered the importance of being able to stand on my own. That being said, I think it is still important to let people in and ask for help too. It's all a balance.
ReplyDeleteWe just have to find the balance.
DeleteIt is soooo important to stand up for yourself. Every time you let someone get away with a small infraction, they will push harder to get away with bigger things.
ReplyDeleteVery important to be mindful of the energy we get from people around.
DeleteI am used to being alone and that is my comfort zone. I believe I need to get out of this comfort zone and reach for higher things. Love reading your blog.
ReplyDeleteWow! So happy to hear that Hannah, You are always welcome here.
DeleteThank you for sharing these tips! It's actually super useful to me and will help a lot! I know I need to believe in my skills more!
ReplyDeleteYou should be more confident of your own abilities.
DeleteI really love this post! It speaks to me in so many ways! It's only now that I've gotten older, have I felt the importance to believe in myself and become confident in being alone.
ReplyDeleteLike everyone my dream was always to be surrounded by loads of people but this lesson has slowly made itself known to me.
It's ok being alone and it's amazing to believe in my abilities and push myself.
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I appreciate your contribution to this and thanks for stopping by.
DeleteI am rarely alone. I really need to learn how to do things on my own.
ReplyDeleteYou definitely should.
DeleteLovely article. I am currently in the process of getting my life back together after leaving a very emotionally damaging 7 year relationship. It's hard to be by yourself and do things on your own.
ReplyDeleteSo sorry to hear that Gloria. Be strong.
DeleteHmmm...great article. I think myself more as alone kinda of type that being around people. It's true that I love spending time with my husband and my cat, but that's kind of it. I should learn how to be more social :)
ReplyDeleteYou should try and find the balance.
DeleteGreat article. It's so important to learn to stand alone and believe in our own abilities so that we can reach our dreams.
ReplyDeleteGlad you could relate to this Paula. Thanks.
DeleteI agree that it's not good to always depend on other people to get things done. Stepping out of our comfort zone is the most difficult, yet fulfilling means of achieving something. However, once in a while it is good to ask for help if we really need it. Cheers!!
ReplyDeleteBoth are really important.
DeleteBelieve it or not, I didn't learn to stand alone until I became a single mother and had no other choice. So glad I did!
ReplyDeleteNice to hear that Jessica.
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DeleteLeaving our comfort zones is a great way to grow. We have to push past the norms!
ReplyDeleteIt's very important that we do so.
DeleteI am a shy kind of person so I like to be alone most of the times, But i guess i should try coming out of my comfort zone and interact with people
ReplyDeleteYou should cause that's the only way you can discover your hidden potentials.
DeleteI agree that it is so important to step outside your comfort zone in order to stand alone. I try and push my boundaries often x
ReplyDeleteAm glad that you acknowledge that fact.
DeleteStepping outside the comfort zone is fun and exciting, and i want to do it with my partner. Its the choice that I like since am always alone :)
ReplyDeleteIt can be really Fun and Exciting.
DeleteI agree that it's really important to push yourself and step outside of your comfort zone. You never know what you're capable of until you push yourself a little farther than you normally would!
ReplyDeleteYou made a great point there Nicole, thanks for that.
DeleteSo glad i could be of help John and thanks for appreciating my work here. You are free to visit anytime. Much love from me.
ReplyDeleteThis article inspire me a lot thanks for this motivational post.
ReplyDeleteYou are most welcome Paras.
DeleteLove this! Everyone has a gift from God. It's up to the individual to discover it and utilize it for the good of the world.
ReplyDeleteVery well said Befitting style.
DeleteThis is so important. My mom would often tell me this when i was younger. I try to do something that is totally out of my comfort zone at least once a month. My new thing is hiking, scared of heights and super clumsy but i feel amazing afterwards.
ReplyDeleteAlways feels good doing that which gives you joy.
ReplyDeleteLove this post as well. You are a good writer =)
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